How to cope with life in normie society
Posted: Mon Jul 06, 2026 8:22 pm
Hello,
I am new here and I guess landed here because I was/am interested in learning more about privacy in this digital age. But during my "development" I noticed that apparently no one else (in my direct vicinity/ real life) really cares for privacy and therefore you are mostly alone on this journey. No, "internet friends" do not count. It just stunned me how much no one really cares for getting raped by the technology they use.
I do not know your living situations but I am a student, soon going to college (degrees are everything it seems like) and I already know I won't be getting along in Computer Science, using proprietary bloat and in general very badly opinionated software. This is ironic as I would assume most of us that made it here are probably good with computers and/or programming.
Just recently I had a conversation with my CS teacher in high school about open source after he saw my "dumb phone" (obviously he had to make fun of it since it wasn't an Apple product, his favorite brand) and he told me, that he thinks, that all software should be controlled by corporations, since they can provide guaranteed support and all that crap. There is no way I am working with or for such idiots. But what else do you do? I obviously can't go full Luke Smith and live on some land I own, since I live in the EU. How do you get along in life, where everyone else is okay with being a slave (to technology, work etc.) until they die? Or maybe even meet someone that isn't a slave to all these things?
This doesn't only apply to work/ career though, as even the students have fallen victim to this in the form of "social media". These networks seem to be everything and without them you are nothing to them. Obviously I am fine with that since I don't need to derive my identity/character whatever from external sources and validation, but if you don't have a presence there you seem to be non existent to these people, even though you meet them everyday. No one has hobbies anymore, no one reads anymore and therefore there exist no real shared interests which could build real relationships. How are you supposed to talk to anyone, when they are constantly glued to their screen and when they decide to talk to you, they can't come up with anything original but repeat some retarded new TikTok trend?
I hope this post isn't too schizo for my first post to be approved by mods. Interested to read your opinions on this!
I am new here and I guess landed here because I was/am interested in learning more about privacy in this digital age. But during my "development" I noticed that apparently no one else (in my direct vicinity/ real life) really cares for privacy and therefore you are mostly alone on this journey. No, "internet friends" do not count. It just stunned me how much no one really cares for getting raped by the technology they use.
I do not know your living situations but I am a student, soon going to college (degrees are everything it seems like) and I already know I won't be getting along in Computer Science, using proprietary bloat and in general very badly opinionated software. This is ironic as I would assume most of us that made it here are probably good with computers and/or programming.
Just recently I had a conversation with my CS teacher in high school about open source after he saw my "dumb phone" (obviously he had to make fun of it since it wasn't an Apple product, his favorite brand) and he told me, that he thinks, that all software should be controlled by corporations, since they can provide guaranteed support and all that crap. There is no way I am working with or for such idiots. But what else do you do? I obviously can't go full Luke Smith and live on some land I own, since I live in the EU. How do you get along in life, where everyone else is okay with being a slave (to technology, work etc.) until they die? Or maybe even meet someone that isn't a slave to all these things?
This doesn't only apply to work/ career though, as even the students have fallen victim to this in the form of "social media". These networks seem to be everything and without them you are nothing to them. Obviously I am fine with that since I don't need to derive my identity/character whatever from external sources and validation, but if you don't have a presence there you seem to be non existent to these people, even though you meet them everyday. No one has hobbies anymore, no one reads anymore and therefore there exist no real shared interests which could build real relationships. How are you supposed to talk to anyone, when they are constantly glued to their screen and when they decide to talk to you, they can't come up with anything original but repeat some retarded new TikTok trend?
I hope this post isn't too schizo for my first post to be approved by mods. Interested to read your opinions on this!